But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. Today's topic: tips for giving a blow job when you have a sensitive gag reflex and a small mouth. I have a really small mouth and a very active gag reflex. Are there any ways to get rid of your gag reflex when giving a blow job?

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